I happened upon it coincidentally after a 1-sided chat with someone who didn't like something I wrote - which they may or may not have felt indirectly referred to them. Although they may have missed the message I was trying to convey (entirely my fault since I wrote it in a way which could be construed exactly as they did ... on purpose, I guess), and, after one of their minions caught it, they showed my 'anonymous input' to their boss. Their boss obviously didn't like what they thought they understood and officially told me so in no uncertain terms that they thought it was "unprofessional."
Okay. I'll agree. It might have been written more vanilla, but I was pissed. So ...
2017 addition:
What I said was that a particular person was "thick" to believe what he was doing was a good idea. I pretty much said that, in those words, on a survey asking for feedback on how I thought a particular process was handled involving the office where I worked. He didn't like being called "thick," I guess.
This person probably would have been communicating their feelings more accurately had they said something like:
"I would have liked you to not make me look so bad and you could have used nicer words that weren't so "direct." I probably would have apologized. But, ummmm, he didn't. So, neither did I. I was urged by half a dozen if 1 person to report this lil dude for using a procedure (and an official gov't form) to reprimand me (unofficially and not on record; I was kinda stunned for a week or two actually). But, he's since been relegated to a position where he can do no further harm. So all's well.
I thought that this graphic "said it all," which is:
If you want people to write (or say) 'warm' things about you, then it's probably not a good idea to do things which tend to have them do the opposite, right?
"I would have liked you to not make me look so bad and you could have used nicer words that weren't so "direct." I probably would have apologized. But, ummmm, he didn't. So, neither did I. I was urged by half a dozen if 1 person to report this lil dude for using a procedure (and an official gov't form) to reprimand me (unofficially and not on record; I was kinda stunned for a week or two actually). But, he's since been relegated to a position where he can do no further harm. So all's well.
I thought that this graphic "said it all," which is:
If you want people to write (or say) 'warm' things about you, then it's probably not a good idea to do things which tend to have them do the opposite, right?
Kind of a no-brainer, right? He and I both kinda screwed up. But I feel better for having done it and this particular person probably has little or no memory of the incident. Sigh.
-- JM(M) --
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